How can we fix a problem if we can’t even identify it?   As painful and scary as these times might be, they really present an incredible opportunity to take inventory of ourselves..and our lives. Nobody is more difficult to be honest with than ourselves.  We are quick to point out a splinter in someone…

“No matter what anyone says or does, my task is to be good. Like gold or emerald or purple repeating to itself, ‘No matter what anyone says or does, my task is to be emerald, my color undiminished.’” from Marcus Aurelia’s  (Meditations’s There is nothing more important than our state of mind.  It’s simple, it…

Most of us have so many problems in our lives, of which about 1% of them will actually happen. Isolating is a scary thing. Reach out to people these next few weeks will ya? I have a friend who constantly complains about his coworker.  From their description, this individual sounds extraordinarily narcissistic and insecure.  They…

https://dev.klaritylifestylecompany.com/blog We are who we think we are.   Mind control is one of the main fundamentals of the KlarityLifestyle. If we can control our minds, we can control our lives. Remember, none of us can control what happens to us.  But we all can control how we think about what happens to us. At…

Thank you Scottsdale Recovery Center for inviting me in to your lives.  Really enjoyed meeting and speaking to everyone.   We can’t let the pull of our past be stronger then the pull of our future.  The way out is through helping others. Live Simple. Live with Klarity.

The life we are living between our ears can be vastly different than the one we are actually living. I remember one time in college, our baseball coach set up a camera in the left field parking garage.  He had one of the assistants focus on just one player, for an entire practice, following him…

I’m so thankful that my hands can open doors like this. How ironic. This was my third session at the Yavapai Juvenile Detention Center, what a lunch break! Using my story to teach the fundamentals of the KlarityLifestyle is a great joy. These kids became students, so thankful for their participation and want to better…

It’s the hardest time to not think about ourselves when things are the hardest, yet it’s the most important.  Like so many of life’s paradox’s, to feel better about ourselves, we need to not think about ourselves.  When we help others with their problems, they strangely help with ours. Get outside yourself to find yourself.…

The rain to the wind said,You push and I’ll pelt.’They so smote the garden bedThat the flowers actually knelt,And lay lodged–though not dead.I know how the flowers felt.-Robert Frost A priest would read this to my dad and I while we lied in our hospital beds. He’d read, and I’d watch my dad cry. Every…

Take the time to find the right state of mind each morning. A simple google search this morning shows that 46% of Americans check their phone before even getting out of bed each morning, and 80% check their phone within the first 12 minutes of waking up.  Our alarm goes off and the first thing…