The Conviction Framework
Why Advisors with Conviction Build Better Firms, Better Clients, and Better Lives At its core, conviction is not about certainty.It’s not about predicting markets, outperforming benchmarks, or having all the answers. True conviction is the confidence that comes from aligning yourself with truth. That is the foundation of this framework. My own conviction was born…
Read MoreBeginning with the End
One of my most favorite stories about visualization comes from Jim Valvano, the legendary coach who took an underdog team from obscurity to national champions. On the very first day of practice with his new players at North Carolina State University, they walked into the gym expecting basketballs, drills, and practice plans. Instead, sitting underneath…
Read MoreResentments
Have you ever noticed that we use two scales when it comes to judgement? We tend to judge others by their actions, but judge ourselves by our intentions? When we see what someone did, we rarely stop long enough to wonder why they did it? Yet in contrast… we will give ourselves grace for our…
Read MoreHuman Connection
For the entire month of March, I made a simple commitment at the office: No emails to clients. If I needed to communicate, I would first pick up the phone. Was I surprised by what happened? Well, not really to be honest…I knew what was coming, but I didn’t realize the magnitude. It was litterally…
Read MoreDaily Surrender
There’s a rawness to Psalm 143 that I keep coming back to each morning. It’s been part of my daily routine since 2015. It’s a prayer written by David, arguably the greatest and ‘strongest” king ever, yet written from a place of vulnerability and desperation. Its authentic and real. Its a cry for help that…
Read MoreSharpening the Axe
We’ve all heard it before: a dull axe takes great strength to use. But a sharpened blade? Well, that’s wisdom at work. The problem is though…most of us just keep swinging! We grind through long days, pushing harder, thinking effort alone will get us where we want to go. And while hard work definitely matters,…
Read MoreLeadership is a Verb
Leadership is not something are, it’s not a title you hold, and it’s not just something that sits next to your name on an org chart. And worse off, it’s definitely not a title you use to tell others what you think you are (similar to the person who thinks they are so humble that…
Read MoreSingular Minded
In a world built on distraction, the rare ability to focus on one thing—fully—is what separates motion from progress. In my humble opinion, and from my experience, the ability to be singular minded is one of the key differentiators between high performers and the rest of the crowd…it’s their ability to do better, not necessarily…
Read MoreBeing Present
The right future is built in the present moment. When we live with one foot in yesterday and the other in tomorrow… we usually end up just screwing up today. We have to be where our feet are. That’s where the magic is. The present is the gift. That sounds easy when life is going…
Read MoreFreedom
It takes a lot of energy to not be yourself. A lot of us spend that energy managing the image, instead of doing the work. We edit the photo. We exaggerate the win. We chase validation. We try to fix an internal issue using external methods. But confidence and freedom doesn’t come from polishing the…
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