From My Life Sherpa: expectations

Matt Miller with a backdrop of a darkened landscape post-sunset

People have not been in our shoes…but we also haven’t been in theirs. We so often let others actions and behaviors affect our own state.  Expectations are really just pre-meditated resentments. The sooner we let go of the things we can’t control, and focus on the things we can, the sooner we can become real…

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Make it a Great Day

Matt Miller inside an MMA ring with a boy giving him a drink over the ropes

This week from  MY LIFE SHERPA www.klaritylifestylecompany.com If we can change the way we think, we can change the way we feel. If we think everyone in the world is untrustworthy, then we’ll attract untrustworthy people. If we think good things only happen to “those other special people”, then good things will likely never happen to…

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Markets Work

How can we fix a problem if we can’t even identify it?   As painful and scary as these times might be, they really present an incredible opportunity to take inventory of ourselves..and our lives. Nobody is more difficult to be honest with than ourselves.  We are quick to point out a splinter in someone…

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State

Photo of a sign that says 'Take what you need' with tear-off strips of paper each bearing a different word

“No matter what anyone says or does, my task is to be good. Like gold or emerald or purple repeating to itself, ‘No matter what anyone says or does, my task is to be emerald, my color undiminished.’” from Marcus Aurelia’s  (Meditations’s There is nothing more important than our state of mind.  It’s simple, it…

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Problems of Our Own Making

Snowy landscape with mountains in the distance helps people find peace and comfort in nature by simple living

Most of us have so many problems in our lives, of which about 1% of them will actually happen. Isolating is a scary thing. Reach out to people these next few weeks will ya? I have a friend who constantly complains about his coworker.  From their description, this individual sounds extraordinarily narcissistic and insecure.  They…

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Our Story

High-angle photo of Manhattan, showing a wide view of the city

https://dev.klaritylifestylecompany.com/blog We are who we think we are.   Mind control is one of the main fundamentals of the KlarityLifestyle. If we can control our minds, we can control our lives. Remember, none of us can control what happens to us.  But we all can control how we think about what happens to us. At…

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Thank you – Scottsdale Recovery

Overhead photo of a sports complex featuring a basketball court, sandy volleyball court, and golf course, with a logo of Scottsdale Recovery Center

Thank you Scottsdale Recovery Center for inviting me in to your lives.  Really enjoyed meeting and speaking to everyone.   We can’t let the pull of our past be stronger then the pull of our future.  The way out is through helping others. Live Simple. Live with Klarity.

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Right Field Fence

View from a rocky cliff overlooking a small river running through dark rocky cliffs

The life we are living between our ears can be vastly different than the one we are actually living. I remember one time in college, our baseball coach set up a camera in the left field parking garage.  He had one of the assistants focus on just one player, for an entire practice, following him…

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Yavapai Juvenile Detention Center

I’m so thankful that my hands can open doors like this. How ironic. This was my third session at the Yavapai Juvenile Detention Center, what a lunch break! Using my story to teach the fundamentals of the KlarityLifestyle is a great joy. These kids became students, so thankful for their participation and want to better…

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Free Yourself

View from a rocky cliff overlooking a small river running through dark rocky cliffs

It’s the hardest time to not think about ourselves when things are the hardest, yet it’s the most important.  Like so many of life’s paradox’s, to feel better about ourselves, we need to not think about ourselves.  When we help others with their problems, they strangely help with ours. Get outside yourself to find yourself.…

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