Our Story


We are who we think we are.  

Mind control is one of the main fundamentals of the KlarityLifestyle. If we can control our minds, we can control our lives. Remember, none of us can control what happens to us.  But we all can control how we think about what happens to us.

At a young age, or at some point in our developments, we subconsciously labeled ourselves. We let someone, or some event in our life, define us.  We let our circumstances become our life long ceiling to change and growth. 

For example, we may think to ourselves, “I will always be fat because I just have a slow metabolism”.  Or because of the situation we were born into, we may think “I will always be poor”. Whatever it is, this story will continue as long as we allow it to.

To grow and overcome our ceiling, we must first identify it.  We can’t heal a problem without first identifying it.  My experience and observations have been that when people take the time to truly look at their life long behaviors, this subconscious story becomes conscious. Change becomes possible.

Once we identify this story, we can begin to exercise our minds towards a new life story.  

Those who breakthrough, those who become the person they want to become, do so because they have to.  It becomes their new standard, their new story.  They won’t accept anything else.

Those who breakthrough and standout from others, don’t just do so because of talent.  They do so because of emotions.  They make their dream their new story.

If you want more than you got, you need to become more than you are.


What is your story? Be honest with yourself.  Think about it. Have you subconsciously given yourself a ceiling, or a “box” to live in?  Sit with this…maybe even ask a friend or two for feedback. Being the victim of our circumstances is a dam shame.  Its not our vault for our situations some times, but its our responsibility to change them.  Own your story!

Now, write down on a piece of paper your new story.  Post this somewhere you can see every morning.  As lame as they appear, daily affirmations actually work. Get this new standard into your soul. 

Sometimes we don’t Just need to clean our lens, we actually need a new pair of glasses.  matt

Daily Fundamentals 

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Create something incredible 

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Matt Miller
Author: Matt Miller

Matt Miller has done many things in his young life...in addition to just surviving. In 2002, Matt left behind person he once was as his life was suddenly changed forever by a horrendous mountain climbing accident. Diving for his falling father, Matt fell over 4,000 feet before miraculously stopping just short of the ragid cliffs. Through a night of survival and pain, Matt persevered but lost most of his fingers and toes as a result from frostbite. Matt does everything from public speaking, one-on-one consulting, firm strategy, as well as company retreat facilitation. With a seasoned investment background and passion for educating the investment world, Matt also can't resist sharing his comments from time to time on markets. Matt is also an avid runner, successfully completing over 10 marathons without his toes! He is 38 and resides in Phoenix, Arizona.


  1. Brion Crum on March 15, 2020 at 11:27 pm

    Hey buddy, do you also publish on Medium? If not you should check into it.

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