Daily Surrender

There’s a rawness to Psalm 143 that I keep coming back to each morning. It’s been part of my daily routine since 2015. It’s a prayer written by David, arguably the greatest and ‘strongest” king ever, yet written from a place of vulnerability and desperation. Its authentic and real. Its a cry for help that one wouldn’t expect to hear from a man known as “the man after God’s own heart”.

It is not polished. It’s not neat. And it’s not the kind of faith most people think of when they think of “right living”. David isn’t writing from a place of strength—he’s overwhelmed, worn down, and out of answers. He’s not negotiating with God, not presenting a plan, not asking for a little help on the margins. He’s simply surrendering completely in a moment of desperation.

My spirit grows faint within me; my heart within me is dismayed.” 

That line hits. Because if we’re honest, we’ve all been there.

There are seasons in life where effort stops working. Where discipline, optimism, and even grit—the things we usually rely on—just aren’t enough. The weight of it all catches up. The uncertainty, the pressure, and the quiet battles that no one else sees just become too much.

And in those moments, we face a choice – Keep pretending we’re in control…Or, finally admit we’re not.

Psalm 143 points to something deeper than just perseverance. It points to surrender.  Not the kind that says, “I quit.”  But the kind that says, “I trust.” Its the kind that originates from unstoppable faith…and the kind that produces real confidence that only God can provide.

Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life.

Surrender isn’t weakness. It’s Klarity. It’s the moment we stop trying to force outcomes and start opening ourselves to direction. It’s letting go of the illusion that we can control everything—and instead choosing to be guided.

In my own life, the moments that have shaped me most weren’t the ones where I had it figured out. They were the ones where I didn’t. Where my soul was crushed and depleted. They were the moments where I was forced to let go, to trust, and to move forward without certainty.  That’s where growth actually happens. 

Psalm 143 reminds us of something simple and uncomfortable: Sometimes the way forward isn’t to push harder…It’s to surrender deeper.

Surrendering doesn’t mean we stop showing up— It means we show up more authentically, joyfully, and we let go of outcomes.  And maybe that’s the invitation each morning, not to wake up with all the answers—  but to wake up with a joyful and trusting spirit, remembering in faith that all things from God are good.

Instead of forcing it this week…Try surrendering it. Where in your life are you gripping too tightly right now?  

Matt Miller
Author: Matt Miller

Matt Miller has done many things in his young life...in addition to just surviving. In 2002, Matt left behind person he once was as his life was suddenly changed forever by a horrendous mountain climbing accident. Diving for his falling father, Matt fell over 4,000 feet before miraculously stopping just short of the ragid cliffs. Through a night of survival and pain, Matt persevered but lost most of his fingers and toes as a result from frostbite. Matt does everything from public speaking, one-on-one consulting, firm strategy, as well as company retreat facilitation. With a seasoned investment background and passion for educating the investment world, Matt also can't resist sharing his comments from time to time on markets. Matt is also an avid ultra runner and outdoor enthusiast...with a big love for spending time in the Grand Canyon.

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